I have found that I handle things best when there is a definite way I should be feeling. Like when someone breaks my trust, I feel angered, upset, betrayed. When someone has been kind to me, I feel like the most important person. But what happens when things aren’t so clear?
I was in no man’s land of relationships in my past. I am glad I am home now.
Sometimes I do perceive things backwards.Yes, I have found a way to stay out of the past, sometimes I am afraid I might wander back in! But no survival guide can really tell you how to live through this! It must happen within you.